"wo yao zuo yi ge you li xiang, you bao fu, you zi xin de ren!"

in one's pursuit of his/her dreams and aspirations, will he/she overlook the human factor, and only come to realise it when all hopes are gone?

are dreams and aspirations more important? or are the ppl ard us more important?

some ppl will tink tt nothing is greater than kinship in this world.. n i do agree wif it to some extent... however, tink of tis scenario.. r u gg to give up ur dreams cos of ur family or bf/gf? even if u r prepared to do it, can u be sure tt u wun hv any regrets later in ur life? for me, i cant be tt sure.. i tink i wil hv some regrets...

but if i were to pursue my dreams n cast aside all kinship, im afraid tt one day i'll grow old to be a successful yet lonely woman who doesnt hv anybody beside me to share my success wif... tt's so tragic, isnt it?

maybe the soln is all abt the art of balancing... heh~ but tt's so ez to say.. how many ppl can really do it well?